What Parents Can Do

The fear that responding to babies every need will reinforce needy behavior is a myth; in fact the opposite is true. Research shows that babies who are consistently soothed and comforted and whose emotional needs are dependably met are the ones who emerge with the stability and independence we seek to promote.

To raise securely attached children parents need to be reasonably emotionally healthy themselves. Having good information about child development and parenting practices helps parents make conscious decisions that support secure attachments. Holding realistic expectations and having access to quality support are essential to feel confident and satisfied as a parent. Parenting is hard work. It is also the most important work we can undertake. With each child we shape the future and how we do so is in our hands.

Information sourced from The Centre for Attachment.