Tandem Feeding
Tandem nursing is another name for breastfeeding two (or more) children at once - generally a new baby and either an older infant or a toddler.
Often it is because we plan to have our baby's close together but still want to give our older child the best start in life (ie: breastfeeding for at least the first 12-24 months) or we find out we are pregnant before our older child is ready to wean. Feeding a baby and a child has many benefits besides the obvious health ones. There is the peace of mind it gives us as parents that our children are getting all the nutrients they need, as well as the many emotional benefits such as the extra closeness between mother and child and the bond that can develop between siblings.
The first question most mothers ask is "Is it safe to breastfeed while pregnant?" and the answer for most of the population is "Yes". You won't be depriving you unborn child of nutrients, nor will it cause miscarriages unless you have pre-existing conditions such as uterine pain or bleeding, a history of premature delivery, continued loss of weight during pregnancy or previous history of miscarriage. These factors should be discussed with your primary caregiver. Every case is different and you should be given enough information to make the best choice for you.
During your pregnancy, as your body prepares for the next baby, you may notice that your milk supply dwindles and often your older child may wean due to changes in the milk quantity and taste. This is normal, as is some nipple discomfort. These factors vary greatly between mothers and even between pregnancies, with some mothers not noticing any difference and others noticing major changes. Again if you have concerns talk to your caregiver or local La Leche League Leader for reassurance and information on how to cope.
Once the new baby arrives you will produce colostrum and then your milk will automatically change to include all the nutrients needed for your newborn. This ensures that your baby is well nourished and gains the most protection from your breastmilk. This change will not harm your older child.
Feeding two children is often a juggling act and you must ensure that the newborn feeds first and most frequently to ensure optimum growth. The bonus of having an older child nursing is that it can actually help with milk production or relieve engorgement. You do need to eat and drink more approximately 1900 calories per day (can increase this by as much as 380 if you are very active).
As a tandem feeding mother you may also feel more tired and 'touched out'. These are normal feelings and it helps to discuss these with someone. Support is a vital part of any breastfeeding but more so when tandem feeding, and it helps if you can find someone to talk to about your feelings, who understands how important breastfeeding is to your family.
It is important to take time for yourself. Something as simple as savouring a drink, or taking a walk can make all the difference to your day.
Lisa is the mother of three girls and a La Leche League Leader currently living in Invercargill.
The information in this article was sourced from The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding 7th revised edition LLLI 2004 and the Ask Dr Sears website www.askdrsears.com |
